Yesterday I watched a youtube podview interview by Shin interviewing Bong Qiuqiu and Peishi. 2 of the OG influencers. 1 of the things that striked me is when Qiuqiu mentioned about how last time when blogging we really just blog about our daily lives purely because we like to share and for someone that used to blog too. I miss that. And I hope to do this post to come back to myself.
I miss the times when we all shared for the sake of sharing.
Now I feel like social media is used for a few things. 1. to show your life 2. to haolian your life to others ( ok I got to say when I used to blog I also haolian a lot it’s just in me but I can feel through the years how God keeps asking me to be humble to be humble. and how sometimes when ppl haolian in their posts it doesn’t make me feel good and why would I want another person to not feel good to see my post. no I don’t want that. If my life is good I know and people around me who knows me knows truly will do. no need to show off. anyways a lot of posts people do nowadays is just showing the highlights and hiding the none highlights so you really don’t need to believe everything you see ok. just focus on living a good life and happy life for yourself and for the people who truly matters to you can liao because I want the people who truly matters to me to have good lives so I hope and trust that they wish the same for me too. When we are all good then we can live our good lives together for the rest of our lives ma right! 3. to share and show what you do. 4. to grow your business 5. to give your business more awareness 6. to build communities 7. to help people
nowadays a lot of times texts we write will go through ChatGPT to go through and beautify our words first before posting because magically ChatGPT is always able to make us (ok let’s not generalize I will just use me) make and help me sound and look more cultured haha. for this post I just want it to be pure and authentic and I pray that this reaches whoever it is supposed to reach!
- I want to mention that I am someone who always lived by feels. a lot of ppl cnt understand that and thanks to human design and numerology and enneagram (these are not really accepted as Christians but I cannot deny that these lets me understand so much why I am the way I am and why everyone is made so differently.) But I also believe that God made us the way exactly we should be to be the light in our own unique ways to shine to different people. Because everyone is flawed. and when you see another human flawed in the same way as you, making mistakes and coming out of them stronger or living the way you thought that only you are living this way, are you weird? you’ll know that hey you are not weird and you are not alone and it is only normal as humans to be this way. we are multi faceted (
What does it mean to be Multifaceted?
As children, we are told we can do anything we put our minds to and that nothing is impossible; however, the second we enter “the real world” that all changes. The rose-colored glasses that allowed us just to exist have now become the pressure of society to choose a niche, pick a specialty, and think inside the box. Although many succumb to that pressure, there’s a handful of us who put the rose-colored glasses back on as we choose to design our lives, define our legacies, and set the tone!)
so much things are not normalized enough because of how we have been taught to be since young and it takes a lot of messages and self-work and rewiring to unlock and truly know and accept ourselves as who we are.
2. I highly recommend reading this book The Art of Possibilities. Learnt a lot even when I’m only at pg 90 now.
3. I took up some coaching sessions and there is this 1 particular coach that keeps asking me questions. And I realized if we really took time to answer questions it can give us clarity.
Just read a post from Instagram @wethinkdeeply and here are some questions below I thought was so good I’m gonna take some time to privately think and answer myself and I hope you do too. Hey you got to pay for coaching sessions. this is free. do it for yourself and I hope these questions do give us the answers and clarity to move forward in life. questions are below as I typed a lot before typing out the questions hahaha
Remember that everyone’s lives is forever a work in progress but of coz there are ppl with fixed mindsets that cannot accept that what they think and have been doing all these while is wrong even when it is. and who is to say who is right or wrong truly when most things can be done in so many ways? also noticed that bosses perhaps have to be more sure and fixed if not if they keep accepting and following what others say will ppl lose respect for them or will ppl respect them more if they were willing to listen but will this waste more time when bosses are supposed to be efficient but what if in this life I ever read and now believe that there is actually no win or lose. i am you and you are me. we are just mirrors of each other learning from 1 another then why do you even try to one up one another?
hmm I think I am in a pretty zen mode whenever im alone and I love that. I love to be alone living the way I feel and want so I don’t have to explain my life I live by feels to others coz when I live by feels and flow it always changes. and I also realize I usually say my problems out instead of all the good stuffs coz I don’t want others to feel bad coz I actually really do feel I live a super Blessed life. I have peace I have freedom I am free to be myself I am free to do whatever I want, I have a good man I love who loves me taking good care of me sending and fetching me almost everyday and I can also use his Tesla car when I want to but I don’t tell people like that coz it is like haolian and weird also if I say like that ma and it might make them feel bad and I don’t want to make people feel bad so I say out my problems instead to rant and not let them feel bad . it is abit weird right? still learning how to balance this. maybe also because my situation is not common also but it works for me personally and I honestly want to say that every single person I really get to speak to deeply all have family traumas they have to work through and because all cases are so different, we actually all need different things not like the standard expectation the world expects because of how we actually truly are through everything we have been through. so what is for me now works for me at this current moment. it might not work next year or next week too. I don’t know I just live life in flow. as long as I have peace and joy and I’m Blessed and healthy I’m good!
anyways 1 question for you all. if you have already achieved a lot in life and your bank already has a substantial amount to live for quite some time then what are you actually working and fighting for? to have a better life to have a better retirement. oh ya that. but what if you trust that God will always provide you just need to follow His leadings then what is there to fight for if you are just living in flow?
I have always thought of myself as a materialists. i want all the great things in life. then I realized that even when I was earning good money and even when I spend a lot every month I felt that the quality did not increased as significantly than I thought. then now I know, the quality of your life is the quality of your thoughts. the people around you matters too. people always say to mix with the best people to learn from them. but you must first become a best person before a best person wants to mix with you too ma. unless you have the opportunity to pay to get their mentorship + they truly are in the mental state to truly want to mentor you then you will get to learn how to get to their level or even better I guess but all these are also part of God’s divine plans in your life too I feel. it is never about striving.
Today after listening to Pastor Joel Osteen’s sermon podcast, spotify jumped to this: Episode 136: Stop Chasing Success: Tap Into This Receivership Framework from Seven Figures Standard. When listening to this it really brought me back to my banking days. the year I performed the best was when I was always sleeping at work and always late. and I was that irritating colleague always hitting my targets and asking my other super stressed colleagues that had not hit their targets why so stress, smoke so much can give you more sales meh?
my secret was repetition and being at ease and always seeing myself at the top and having the right intentions and God really bless me when I’m in this flow. but i also remember myself being stressed then the flow stops. truly when you force outcomes it actually blocks the results you want. grinding comes from fear, tension and scarcity while true success flows from alignment, trust and identity. learn how to surrender your goals and why surrender is not a passive action, and why calm confident energy stops the grind and attracts opportunities to yo7u. how to detach from outcomes without losing discipline and how to align with the frequency of what you truly want. listen to this episode to discover how to relax, align and receive and stop chasing the results that you were meant to attract.
ok now for the good questions to ask yourself from @wethinkdeeply on instagram:
- Out of 582 questions i’ve asked here, these 10 hit the hardest.
2. How long will you put off what you are capable of doing, just to continue what you are comfortable doing?
3. If you live like the last 14 days for the rest of your life, where do you end up?
4. If all jobs would pay the same amount what would you be doing?
5. What regret are you creating by not choosing ‘the thing you’re thinking about’ today?
6. Is your routine building your future or just maintaining your past?
7. If the 3 people closest to you, would die tomorrow, what would you regret not saying to them?
(when will you say it?)
8. What if a dream job is not a destination but a series of moments over time?
9. If today was your last day alive, would you spend it the way you are?
10. Would you still hand out with them if you had 6 months left to live?
11. Is the life you are living right now a result of your choices or your fears?
Nowadays everyone sounds like:
“Do THIS or you will fail!”
“Here is my 5-step framework…”
I’m not here to give you those answers but I’m here to ask you deep questions.
So that you can figure YOUR answers out for yourself.
If that sounds like you, and you would like to finish the year reflecting then…
Welcome to my corner of the internet <3
Sending love,
Freek – founder @wethinkdeeply fully crediting them for this. Go answer and I hope this post and these questions lets you come back to yourself.
Hope this helps.
God Bless!
Love,
Tracy Immanuel